Four Golden Rules

for Parents and Teachers to MOTIVATE Students

by Herman Ohme, Ed.D.

Rule #1 - EVERY CHILD CAN LEARN

Parents and Teachers who truly believe that every student CAN learn have one great common bond: they absolutely refuse to give up or believe anyone who tries to convince them they are in a losing battle. They redouble their efforts; they become problem-solvers; they find what works.

Rule #2 - EXPECTATION GOVERNS PERFORMANCE

Parents and Teachers tend to get what they expect. If they believe a child is incapable or below average, the child inevitably will find ways to prove they are right. Parents and Teachers with the opposite attitude work to find ways that enable the child to prove that they are also right.

Rule #3 - STUDENTS PERFORM BEST FOR TEACHERS THEY LIKE

A Report Card with mostly C's, D's, and F's, and an isolated A or a B is a clear indication of a teacher the student liked. Teachers who truly respect and like all of their students find ways to encourage them that have wonderful effects on their performance.

Rule #4 - REVENGE IS THE WRONG MEDICINE

Parents and Teachers cannot afford the luxury of carrying a grudge. Revenge and punishment mean getting into a war that no one can win. As Adults, Parents and Teachers can refuse to play "hostility" games. It is best to use constructive means to correct unacceptable behavior, but at all times retain respect for the individual.

Copyright 2005-2008: Herman Ohme